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Rudy Ruggles, Editor
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Thursday, 15 October 2009 00:00 |
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It's important for young people to honor their beliefs. It's one thing to have beliefs and values. It's quite another to stand up for them, especially when you feel like you're sticking your neck out alone. Anytime young people draw on their inner spark of courage and act based on their values, they have integrity. History is packed with stories of honorable people with integrity. The best way to teach integrity to young people may be to practice and model it yourself. Think of the things you do every day: recycle an empty can if you care about the environment; point out something positive about a person who others are making fun of. Integrity one of Search Institute's 40 Developmental Assets, the qualities, experiences, and relationships that help young people grow up healthy, caring, and responsible.
Research shows that young people who have integrity feel good about themselves, make thoughtful decisions, and lead others through their positive influence. About 68 percent of the Ridgefield High School students surveyed report that they act on their convictions and stand up for their beliefs. This increases from only about 65 percent of Freshmen to nearly 75 percent of Seniors - an indication of greater maturity. [Interestingly, girls report a substantially higher level of integrity than boys.] Help young people gain confidence to act in ways that reflect their values and beliefs, even when it's difficult.
Be a role model for the young people in your life: Think about what you believe in and value. Is it being a good friend? Helping vulnerable people? Honesty? Education? Health? Ask yourself whether your daily actions show you are true to yourself and your values. Confidence, trust, and respect are a direct result of integrity, and there are many ways adults can help young people foster these characteristics.
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